Kids

Two of my friends have gunning for a second kid and I am so happy for them.
In fact, one of them is already pregnant and is expecting her child around end August.

Their plans initially is to have just one. But as the first child grew up, they notice how lonely the kid is. Cousins and classmates are great, but they do not always fit the whole equation.

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Call me kaypoh or/and straight-forward, but that is me.
I tends to pop the question about kids to my friends quite often.
When you hear the answers, so can be quite shocking.
But I do not interfere or act like a wise old man, as everyone lives their own life.
But here are just some of the things that you may have heard.

"We do not wish to have kids." - I notice a trend, but I shall not discuss it here.

"We wanna make sure we have enough, before we plan for a kid" - How does one define enough?

"We drop the kid at my mum's place on Monday and pick her up on Friday" - First time you hear it, it shocks you. But not anymore.